Winning

Updated insider information by Chellie Campbell, author of “The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction” 166-June 15 “If at first you don’t succeed, skydiving is not for you.”—Unknown I told the class to remember a time when they were winning: they won the race at the track meet, won the football game, got the part they wanted in the play, got the job or promotion, won the award, got the acknowledgment. When I asked them to tell their stories, they beamed and their faces glowed. On the white board, I started to list the emotions and feelings they remembered experiencing while winning: Excited Special Lucky Enthusiastic Energized Fun Ecstatic Happy Confident Powerful They were thoughtful, tentative and … [Read more...]

Motivation

Updated insider information by Chellie Campbell, author of “The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction” 165-June 14 “There is only one way to get anybody to do anything. And that is by making the other person want to do it.”—Dale Carnegie Psych 101—guinea pig class. It was a general education requirement when I was in college. In this basic psychology class, you were required to participate in an experiment—you had to be an involuntary guinea pig for one of the graduate student’s experiments. The day of my experiment dawned and I sashayed down to the psych building, planning to get out of there as soon as possible, so I could go to the party on the beach. I sat down in the lab and the young man running the … [Read more...]

The Wonderful Trip

Updated insider information by Chellie Campbell, author of “The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction” 164-June 13 “When Goliath came against the Israelites, the soldiers all thought, ‘He’s so big we can never kill him.’ But David looked at the same giant and thought, ‘He’s so big, I can’t miss.’”—Ode to Joy (Society of Paul) My friend, Paris Salido, a terrific masseuse, wanted to go on a vacation to Australia, yet had other budget priorities for her money. Being a graduate of the Financial Stress Reduction Workshop, she knew the importance and power of affirmations, so she invented one for vacation purposes: “I now receive free first-class travel and accommodations all around the world.” (She told me that it … [Read more...]

Little Acorn and the Old Ones

Updated insider information by Chellie Campbell, author of “The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction” 163-June 12 “The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it open.”—Arnold H. Glasgow “How come I’m not taller?” cried Little Acorn. “I want to stand tall and straight and reach the skies. Like you!” “Wait,” whispered the Old Ones, leaning down from their great height. The winds sighed through their rustling leaves. “But I want to be big now. I shouldn’t have to be little like this. This is no fun!” The elder trees stood stoically, stretching their long limbs to the skies. “Wait.” “It’s not fair! How come you get to be so tall, while I’m stuck here on the … [Read more...]

Truce

Updated insider information by Chellie Campbell, author of “The Wealthy Spirit: Daily Affirmations for Financial Stress Reduction” 162-June 11 “Every time one laughs a nail is removed from one’s coffin.”—Honduran Proverb Perky Lindsey wasn’t her usual bubbly self at the family dinner. “How is your term paper coming along?” her mother, Jane, asked sympathetically. “Oh, it’s really hard!” Lindsey exclaimed. She looked like it was hard too, poor haggard dear. A sophomore a UCLA, she was embroiled in all the challenges of academic diligence sandwiched between sorority parties, dances, and general fun. Her older sister, Marissa, had just graduated from UCLA and was happily at work as Strategic Sales Coordinator at a sports radio station. … [Read more...]